Why don't you try to work things out with her rather than gettiing a new wife. Your son willnot get the same treatment from a new mom as he would from her. I hate to see family getting scattered. As long as things work you shoudl try to sort it out. Life is too short for regrets in future...What if your new wife si not what you want........and u realise it late? There are 4 lifes that will get messed up. Yours.......new wife's, old wife's and your son's. I really feel for your son...I really wonder what kind of thinking will he develop when he grows up?? If your old wife wants to come back to canada she may be tryign to get back with you..........see if it works and if it doesnot then you can think otherwise. I think it will be better for your son...just a suggestion!