It's really a serious matter to deal with if you are facing the probem. It's quite easy to blame parents being conservative or tell someone's  what to do ..!

First thing, got to keep in mind that most of the married life ends in 7 years time in US. So how much do you guys love each other. Does the word 'selfish' come between you by any chance?  Is your relationship based on sex/attractions/ just needs each other / or else ..... ?

If your answer is guninue of living together and sacrificying each other rest of the life ? You duty is to find out how strong your relationship is or not .. ? Are you sure that you decision is the best for you ? Do you think your relationship will be the best relationship for your life ? Do you think you would never get LOVE n be loved like with her ..? If so then make a decision of your life to live with her hjeartily.

Then comes parents. It's not that difficult once you make your decision. You have made a decision to live with her rest of your life and you are sure of it...! Now parent are right on their side. Coz being only son parents do have too much expectations ! What would your neighbour thing and say to you parents ? your parents have done so much for your life that they don't have anyone to look after except you .. ! What if you also turn your back to them ..! In extreme case they might felt of not worthy of brought you up/ educated you .. ! They can feel all their life efforts gone to vain ..! For it you must be able to win your parents hearts and minds .. ! If you are serious to marry her .. and she loves your without conditions .. ! You must be able to win your parents wishes ! I don't think your parents would go against you unless you won't take a right path. All you need to convince them and get blessings and wishes from them ... !

It may take few months or years but take a blessing from them ..! I'm sure if you are true to your heart i'm sure you will get what you deserve ..and a very happy life .. !

Wish you good luck ... !

Uncle Tom ..!