I am gonna have to agree with Bideshi on this one. It’s very easy to come up with excuses in USA to off load your parental responsibilities to somebody else in Nepal. As a father of two and half years old child myself, I can’t really think of any good excuse to keep my son away from me. We’ve been through some rough times and the only thing that kept us happy through out that period was my son. I bet that most, if not all, of these people who are supporting ‘aabha_in_us’ action do not have kids and don’t really know what it means to have one. I would have probably responded the same way if I wasn’t a father. So please look for a way to keep your infant with you, and I’m sure that you will find one.  And to those who are saying that it is really a personal matter, then it should have been kept personal - no need to share it in Sajha aka public.