I don't understand why people have to jump on conclusion before hearing the whole story.  Now I don't know what aabha story is but its his personal choice to sent his child to Nepal and he/she must have a reason for that.  If you choose to keep your two kids while struggling, that’s your personal choice too and about $20 baby sitting, you know some people might have argument that they would rather sent their kids to Nepal and raised by their grandparent than raising by someone you don't know.  So shut up and don't put Nasty comment like why bother having them you can't commit.