I am amazed at the propensity of people, especially here in Sajha, to jump to conclusions and spare no time or reasoning to condemn/blame/denigrate other people.

Abha of US probably has her reasons on sending her child to Nepal with her parents.  Heck, maybe it is not even her child, maybe she is finding an alternative for somebody else's infant.  Who knows why?  Certainly not these nincompoops who are quick to play the blame game here.

Abha, as tintotopi advised, give Nepal embassy at DC or Nepali Mission at NY a call.  And keep on asking around.  I have heard of people doing the same thing as what you posted. 

As for those dumbasses on high-horses with holier than thou attitude:  If you do not have anything constructive to suggest, why on earth do you open your worthless piehole?