if u guys r just bf/gf then it's easier. if already married then uggggh a whole mess? btw u don't hv kids, do u? if u do, it wud be heart wrenching for them. if just bf/gf then it's nevr too late...moving to a new place n hvin new social circle wud def work. but first did u try evrything u cud to save this relationship? i just hate sad endings....dun forget to communicate...rem communication is the key in all relationships...