almost 3 years into their relationship, they broke up. he told his parents about her , his momma cried over the phone and just like that it's over....

"k wakka lagdo ho. jaat namilyo bhanera runu parne k chha ra"? i ask. "khai kina royo , malai k thah tani? aba tesko baba ama le bachha dekhi nai ...jaat jaat jaat bhanera hurkako thiyo ta tesle pahile nai afnai jaat ko keti khojnu parthyo ni ta...." says my best friend . "3 barsa samma ko sabai kura usko ama le aasu jharne bittikai khattam ke, uslai eklai huda samma k chha kaso chha , ka khayo hola , kasto chha hola bhanera worry garne , phone ma kura garne bela ma chai he needed me aba ghar bata hudaina bhane pachi pani he tries to act like everything is normal....ma chai tesko ghar bata keti chhanera bihe nagarauda samma sathi basdine ani finally la babu ramro sanga bihe garera basa bhanna lai ho ki k ho...i'm just gonna avoid him "

this got me thinking .....how many of us would actually go against our parents and marry the person of our choice?.(assuming we have a decent guy/girl that u're ready to marry but our parents object not coz they dislike the person but because of sth the person cannot change ).....mero bhanai chhai...afno ama baba conservative chha ra afnai jaat, nationality religion etc etc khojchha bhane pahile nai tyo kura mind ma rakhera keta/keti khojne....aru jaat, religion , nationality sanga relationship chha bhane teslai nai big deal banayera ....mero ama baba le didaina bhanna is just plain WRONG.