i dont think sending them to a boarding school is very good  idea cuz u r just distancing yourself frm them what good is that gonna do

most kids just want their parents attention that’s why they act out and no matter wht they say to u, u r really the coolest person to them. They will argue with u at home and then they will go out and argue with others defending ur ideas. Just spending quality time with them is the best idea. U dont have to leave ur job just anytime is good time I think

Plus I don’t like boarding school/ hostel many kids get raped and molested beaten up they are not emotionally healthy just imagine kids living with kids with minimum supervision. Ani supervision garnewala was a molester (we have many of those in Nepal trust me)

Wht if that happens to his kids. They will really dislike Nepal and not just Nepal they will hate their parents after that.

U brought them into this world u have promised to protect them be there for them and it is ur responsibility how they turn out. Sending them to be raised by someone else will just mess them up even more.

Ani all 8, 13 year old kids are trying to figure out their identity I think we all were too. U argue with ur mom and dad and u don’t want to do anything they say that’s how u behave at that age

Most important of all ur kids should turn out to be good decent human beings and they cant without u always there at least when they r kids.

Please don’t send ur kids to be raised by others it has devastating consequences.

Yokun--- its true newari ppl are very good at teaching their kids their langauge and culture. i am gurung and i cant speak my language b/c my parents never taught me i wish i could though