Dear All, please allow me to introduce myself. My grandparents migrated to Malaysia from Sri Lanka even before the Japanese and British occupation. My parents were born here. That makes me the second generation Tamil speaking Hindu to be born here. In case you don't know, Malaysia is a multi-racial country.

I'm married to a most wonderful Newari speaking Hindu in Nepal. He loves me not because of my spoken language or because of my bloodline but because I love him, his country and his people. I know Nepal better than some of you in Sajha. I serve the poor, the needy, the deprived, the blind in Nepal.

WHO DO YOU SERVE IN NEPAL, MY SAJHA FRIENDS?

The reason why Nepal has deteriorated to this stage today is because of selfish people like some of you. Remember that whatever you give out will come back to you. Hate, and you will receive hate in return. When you fill yourself with inharmonious thoughts and emotions, you are destroying yourself. Why hate or be angry with anyone? Love your enemies! Why stew in the heat of anger?

Jealousy comes from an inferiority complex, and expresses itself through suspicion and fear. It signifies that a person is afraid he cannot hold his own in his relationship with others. Improve yourself; develop yourself. Wrath and hatred accomplish nothing. Love rewards. You may cow down somebody, but once that person has risen again, he will try to destroy you. Then how have you conquered him? You have not.

The only way to conquer is by love. And where you cannot conquer, just be silent or get away, and pray for him. That is the way you must love. If you practice this in your life, you will have peace beyond understanding.

Take away India, China, Europe, America, Canada, France, UK and every foreigner from Nepal and you will have a country that's 100 years behind time. The worst kind of sin is INGRATITUDE.