i agree.
to speak the truth, i guess we all LOVE hindi songs and are ready to speak the same with any hindi speaking fellow - be him/her be an indian or even a nepali brother or sister from madhesh. but because hindi is not the official language of nepal, it should not be used in official places and ceremonies.
also talking about the dress code...as like the language, there must be one dress during official (by which i mean governmental) ceremonies, let it be daura suruwal or dhoti or bakkhu- the goal should be the meaning of unity, focusing on the essence of convergence of all hands and brains.
lets not fight over petty things people...all it does is destroy our own peace of mind...and the great, solemn brotherhood that has been existing among us since time immemorial.
peace