wow! this might me sombody's true story or made up story, but that is how all the immigrants live their whole life here in USA. This is a very true story for almost each and every immigrants living  in america. I got my american citizen just few years ago, but i think the same thing all the time. Is it really worth it: living in america, promising to go back to your country one day, the day which nobody knows, and maybe someday, sombody in your family passes away and you are so busy that you even miss to say goodbye before they die. Are your dreams much bigger than your own families. And the same thing for sure will happen to you, as you live in the land of freedom, where there is so much freedom but no families. where there is more ME than there is WE.