Nepali Hero 1   I totally agree with your point that we are not helpless...we choose to remain silent and helpless because we are comfortable here and around the world not having to face the problems first hand but I beg to differ with the effort that many who try to contribute get disheartened due to the HUGE GHUS AND BRIBE & CORRUPTION  INFESTED NEPALESE SOCIETY.............I am a business man and am willing to do business in Nepal BUT the Bribe starts from The top airport officials to the Goverment for liscense to local permits to getting it passed in a fair way. SO please dont misunderstand me. Successful people of all occupation eg: Doctors, engineers, Lawers face the same stuff and if you try to do it the right way ...it aint gonna happen. You know the famous saying in Nepal ......SIDHA AULA LE GHIU AAUDAINA........right? India will never allow any other countries to do good for Nepal WHY???? Elysee frointer for peace & Charity ORG, French company was denied grant to build a 500 million dollars worth for Upperkarnali Hydro power project LARGEST IN ASIA....... WHY???? The French director from the project approached the King for the permit and research and that company spent 5 million dollars to do the research and was given the permit and liscence to begin work .........unfortunately SOON the King was sacked and then ........Girijas cabinate revoked the liscence saying it was corrupt and asked them to do another one with the presence of Girijas own people and then asked him 10 million $ to even begin the project and another 5 million for the new research. The French company Backed down from giving the bribe saying their ORG was a nonprofit charity company and was doing this for the people of Nepal so nepal can do business in asia .....French Man Mr Levy gave His interview in kantipur News and he made it clear that he was real disheartned how the Nepal goverment doesnt have any feelings for the poor of nepal.........LATER the same project was given to an Indian company almost worth nothing and nepal had to buy electricity from These MOFO Indians. SO bro what do you say???? WE all have loved ones back home and yes their situation are dire....they are the only people we can help......but what about the poor ones who dont have people like us living abroad???? Who wants to challenge a goverment that can wipe out your whole family........Bro when there is YCL and Maoists and any armed groups in Nepal doing anything without being checked and The Indian police and Armed army entering nepal and arresting and killing Nepali when ever they want WHILE NEPALI GOVERMENT and the SECURITY FORCES OF NEPAL turn a BLIND EYE ON THE CRIME.........what are your options. Do you want to voice your opinion against those people?????? I guess youre not..............We all got a lot of families.....Does that make us SMART or COWARDS...live to fight another day..????.................To speak against them is GRAVE DANGER.....in a lawless country like Nepal........If you choose to be a BRAVE GORKHA AND REBELL AGAINST THESE MONSTERS.......you RISK everything........SO........THAT MY FRIEND, FRUSTATES ME, ANGERS ME, I HATE MYSELF FOR BEING SELFISH SO MY LOVED ONES WONT BE HARMED.......DO I HAVE A CHOICE....YES..........I PUT MY FAMILY FIRST.............I LOVE MY COUNTRY WAY TOO MUCH BUT IF I WONT HAVE ANY FAMILY THERE..........I DONT KNOW HOW PATRIOTIC I WILL FEEL.........................