I know we should all be allowed to chose our own destiny...But everything we wish for is not always true...I myself was very active in sports during childhood...May be i could be one of the stars but it didn't happen...Why you ask??? It's because there's no opportunity...yes there's family support but at one time you yourself will think about what you are gonna do in the future...Truly everybody wants to earn a lot of money and get a fruitful life..I didn't think my sports would give me what i wanted...I wanted sports but it didn't want me...That is why i had to chose a different career...Most of the parents want their children to read books and not play all the time...This happens because they want their children to be just like their friend's children...ram uncle ko chora ta 1st bhayo, babu pani padera 1st hunuparcha....everybody has to be number 1..that's what they expect all the time...I would say parents guide us for some while nevertheless taking care of yourself depends on you...