kanchu.
there's a reason why Indian stick with their indianness because they were colonized by the British. We really do not care about our identity since it was never made fun of or crushed under someone's feet. Imagine being a servent to a race in your own country, and then when you get your country back, you DO NOT want anything to do with it (Be Indian, buy Indian). So we were never colonized, it's a blessing with a curse. With all that said, it does not mean we cannot learn on our own. But how? Look at our country....everybody is busy with selfishness, wealth, power and corruption. It all starts with schooling to learn to appreciate our identity and culture. Hell, we never realise our existence and out uniquness unitl we land in the US. When we were back home, we cared about our family, be a good son.....that's all about it.
Our love/hate realtionship with Indians is very supeficial. It's NOT raciest as some belive. We do not want to kill them but at the same time we cannot stand those loud mouth, smart ass, cunning Indian. Not saying all of them are like that, but you get the picture. How about "Stop watching Hindi movies" as a first stepping stone to revitilize our Nepali identity.