Let me put it this way if a black guy uses a N word to refer another black guy...its fine...but when a white guy uses the same word to refer a balck guy...he is killed to death......its same for us

If some one from different culture says gurkha, jyapu, bahun to us we get offended as he is not Nepali,....but when a Nepali says its fine...dude even a Nepali can be offended on it when told by another Nepali......

Samashan, how will u feel when a Indian Guy talks to u using word like bahun, jyapu, gurkha...will u be offended or u will feel respected...