No actually the lawyer we talked to told me my family has 6 months to get out or we will be banned for 3 years. I do have a valid argument however which is I am a depended of H1B which means I had no choice but to stay here. I am pretty sure that is a valid argument but talked to a friend new NZ he told me immigration system is insanely liberal in NZ therefore all I have to do is come here on student visa and he will take care of the rest which sounds good to me. Anyway thanks for the help.

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