Well whatever you saw in www.notcanada.com is bitter truth for Canadian immigrant. Keeping in mind that you may not get job in your field and still wants to consider immigrating to Canada then it's better idea if you have no other choice rather than going back to Nepal. You can see in video, every other people were educated in non Canadian university and they had long lasting struggle. So the best bet is to join Canadian university and get degree and then find jobs, this trick has helped many immigrant. Every one has their own reasons for immigration but process is same for every one it has point system and you need 67 points to qualify, having cutoff point is not sufficient to get approval, it depends upon many factor and circumstances that’s why I say outcome of an application is unpredictable. 

Kalopani, I see that you have masters degree without any work experience. Working in front desk won't help you. To be eligible for skilled worker you work experience must be listed on  Job title Category A NOC, If you do not find you job title in the list then you can not claim points for that work experience. It seems like you may not get any points from US local job until unless you have any other work experience back home, make sure don't lie anything as everything will be verified before any decisions are made. As far as refugee is concern, I don't see why any one in status will claim for refugee as this category is reserved for refugee and illegal people, I fear you may not fit into this category. The best goal will be to secure a position in US itself and then collect work experience which will qualify you for skilled worker.

I hope this posting will help to answer many of your question.