Elusive Cat is soooo true. you are not the only case, BUD. Tons of guys go thru this almost everytime coz most of 'em don't like to express. Forget bout boys, these days even gurls don give a F**k. if her gurlfren is interested in dis cool hot dude, she won't bother to flirt wid him. GOSH .... it happened to mah own fren. he liked dis gurl, but never approached her. then, the gurl went out wid dis other dude, who was my frens fren.things happen, if it doesn't work, gotta move on !!!