Maddog thanks for the good suggestion. I also think that in the same way. I would love to meet her, have cofee and talk ..... But as i already mentioned that oppurtinity never came into my life yet. In other words i didn't meet any girls with whom i can have cofee and talk. I certainly prefer to know each other and respect each others feeling. I would be immensely happy if i could truly love some one from my inner heart and vice versa. Thats why i mentioned that i would prefer love marraige. But  if i really get those things after the arrange marriage, I would consider myself as more lucky. But only thing that  i can't do but which i want to do is to know each other and talk about the feeling and other stuffs. Because i will not have enough time to do those things.And it is not possible to know someone from just a  few meetings.