Ratobhaley,

No one in my family use "baksyosh". I never said that. It is only "hajur" that we use when addressing the elder ones. Like, "buba, hajur le khana khanubho (not khaisyo)?" Now, I am not sure if you were referring to this hajur or the other ones ( baksiyosh). If it was the other kind, then I apologize for the earlier post. I have nothing to say for or against the other kinds.