ok contour, here is what i tell everyone.

first of all, whenever you are in dilemma, ask yourself and think about it.  though we can say so many things to others or lie to others, we can not lie ourself. 

second of all, we are nepali and we respect our seniors, parents.  i would hesitate to do things that i need to hide from my parents.  what would you think?  if we are hiding things, then we know we are not doing something right..........