Ok this is a time for a woman, a Nepali woman, to give her input again. I am very impressed on how some of you young Nepali Men have responded to Contour's pain and frustration in his current situation. Contour, first thing first. This is not a moral dilemma at all. The best phrase I can come up with my tired brain at the end of a workday is  more like "Libido/ Testorone Dilemma" or a "Jealousy Dilemma". Had you phrased it differently, you probably would have received a more constructive feedback rather than all the moral lashing that you have ended up receiving. To me it seems like you are getting somewhat attached to this woman unconsciously. And again this is just my opinion. You have to remember that every action has a repurcussion. I am not judging you in anyway though this is the not the path I would have to take hopefully in my life. But again when one have take care of ones' needs, physical or otherwise, we have to resort to methods that might be untraditional or unconventional ways. It is obvious you find this woman irrestible and you cannot stop yourself from doing what you are doing with her. However this being an infidelity, it is not going to be perfect. You cannot have it your way to the full. What I am trying to say is that you cannot expect to relieve and satisfy you sexual needs while maintaining your savings and your greencard. Since it looks like it is a mutual and consesual relationship and while you both are enjoying yourself, you should be happy for what you are getting. Dude you want to have a safe, continuous sexual relationship with this woman, save money and have her help you out with cooking and other chores.... I think you are getting a really good deal so you should just be content with what you are getting. Like one of the posting above, this type of relationship has a potential to tarnish your reputation and possibly hurt you in your career track. So you need to be mindful of these issues. And if Again And if you do decide to pursue this lusty relationship with her, you need buy some earplugs from Staples or OfficeMax with some erotic material to maintain your sexual peakness while she chats up with her husband. This is all I got to say.

Wow I did not think it was going to be this long but oh well!!!!!! But I am glad that women are not holding back from taking care of their needs though it may be this is not the best way to go about it. All I can say is to be mindful think of the repurcussions before you jump in the bandwagon. And good luck on this moral endeavour of yours Contour.