LOL!
somebody mentioned about expectations. i think that's the keyword. we do expect a lot from our would-be-spouse and the conjugal life. After getting married, we think life's gonna totally change. We'll take positive strides, we'll see new horizons, new avenues, new 'hopes'. Life will be more beautiful and tension free with reduced stress coz someone to share them with.

Romancing: come back home from work and see her face and quench your hunger/thirst or other desires (no pun intended).

Dreaming: she will make good food for you without you having to look at the ugly-faced kitchen. she will do dishes as well while you be a couch potato on your will and watch  TV for hours and snore in between.

Relaxing: she will massage your body (better than how those japanese experts do) and alleviate pain in your shoulders, joints, back or muscles while you lie on your bed and think "Ahhh...life had never been this easy". Then switch the light off and enjoy her singing in high notes while you sing with her in chorus all night long.

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WAKE UP! That's not gonna happen. Ever heard of sun rising from the west? No! change of that sort doesn't happen in real life! If there must be some change, the sun will possibly never shine again ever, once you get married hahaha..

Just my 2 cents