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Marriage is like working on it to make it satisfying, aint it ? 
About Family Interference or Any Interference for that matter : Sometimes, its good to listen. He wins, who can convince them to your ideas in a courteous manner. [ sorry, not a winning/losing game there either ].

Frankly speaking, i wouldnt want to  "impose" do's and dont's  to her.  And i am pretty sure, she wouldnt like me doing the same, put my parents aside.