Pareen, I guess it is not only you but all Nepalese women hate their in-laws. Our society is very unpredictable; she forgets that she has in-laws too. Marriage is a compromise, better communication and understanding will help to heal but this should not be one sided, that is the dilemma. It is easy to say but hard to face. If your husband wants to listen you, he has to face with nick name” joitingre”. And male hate to hear that so they will join the team. Then the case will be more complex.