i don't think that was a good way to play a joke (even though only initially) in a serious matter like this and when someone is so serious.

JwaiSahab, i think you should consult an account (Nepali) to be better advised. i am not sure where you livw, but there's a Nepali account in TX who I am sure will help you provide advise on the matter. you can get his # by visiting the Nepalese Society of TX website, which is located in the sajha.com as well. If you don't find his contact info there, just e-mail the president or secretary of the NST and they will help you out with his contact info.

Good Luck!