Spreadlove, I imagine there are more than a million people invariably feeling the same loneliness you are feeling at this moment. You ask me for a solution, and I don't have one. It would be hard to be in someone else's boot and feel the way they feel
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Opposite attraction, at first, was like a mystery to me. Did I just not have the chemistry to get someone I liked? Or was I just that ugly that even the closest mirror in a1 km proximity range would shatter during my presence. Love is in the air. You must have seem them, down the street, on the elevator, at work, like lovebirds they fall upon each other, unknown of the propaganda that is heating up outside their cute little world. Where had I been all these years? It seemed like my nephew had more experience than me when it came to handling women.

Well, enough of the story. I learned to be myself, be polite, have a good reason for doing things, and not speak like a stove waiting to explode. Take chances with women, go that extra mile to make them happy. If you don't start it, nobody else will. Take a step forward and earn it. In a few weeks, or even months you'll find your lucky charm and then all of this will disappear like it never happened. Imagine yourself there and take the right steps.... Nobody else can help you as much as you can help yourself. Take care and good luck!