Dear friends, I have a similar story.  a friend of mine is  living here for 5 years and supposed to get married with a girl in a different state( arranged). After he got engaged with the he met this wonderful girl and they dated for 4 months.of course , he realizes that he shouldn't have but he says he was friends with that girl before he got engaged and the relationship slowly turned intemate( no sexual).

          now it is time to marry the girl he is engaged with. in 2 months he can't dump her, because everything has been finanlised , cards have been distributed and news have been disclosed about the marraige. and he can't seem to forget this new girl he met. She is just amazing and exactly the one he says he want. She is so understanding and so compromising that she has moved to a different state to kill this love between them. It is just very hard for him. he is supposed to get married soon but he's in love with a different girl. The guy is very honest but it's not easy being honest in this situation becuase it tears so many people's heart. We live away from Nepal and think that we own our decision, but when it strikes us it does so bad that we can't escape; yes the family and expectations. I am th eonly person the guy trusts and he has told me that i can disclose this info in sajha. I don't know what to suggest.

 i can't tell the guy to marry the girl he's not in love with or marry the girl he's in love with. both ways it's gonna tear lots of hearts. what do you guys think?