Dear Anita,

I feel sad that you are having such type of problem in your married life. I heard that one of my far relative  from Bhairahawa also got married with a guy, who lives in USA and is about 11 years older than her. I wish that you are not that one.

As the many people here suggest you to talk about the problem with your partner rather than just hiding on your own I also suggest you same way. The things that you are giving importance might not be really imprtant for your real married life. You know, as the time passeses the priorities will also change. What we are thinking very important now, later might turn to be really not important. I hope if the guy is normal human being there will be a compromise and your life will be better. And never forget to analyze your own weakness too. Good luck! never give up there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

best wishes