HappyFace: I agree with DalliResham. Marriage is a ..

Posted by: HappyFace December 27, 2007

I agree with DalliResham. Marriage is a compromise between two different beings. How tohandle relationships and run a good family equally depends on both. You should not accept loss so easily; try, try, and try to adjust to things around you if you can'tchange it. From what you're saying, you dislike your husband because of his looks, personality,thinking etc, etcÂ and not because he is behaving wrong with you or treating you bad.I do not think that it is an excuse to leave spouse just because you do not like hisappearance or ideas or personality. Either you should try to change it your way or adjust to it. Morally, it is just wrong to divorce him citing his improper looks, ideas, thoughts.But Legally, you can. You are an adult. You have your own preferances and own vales and proirities in life, which may and do differ from others. If you give morepreference to the moral and religious values you wound not do leave him because you are just looking for at your happiness and that also for your cause; if you putyourself at the top and care about your happiness more than anything, you might dothat. But remember, what goes around comes around. Good Luck!prefer to be

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