Why don't both of them  go to marriage counseling?  It seems that she doesn't like the way he is and he doesn't  even consider her feelings, it seems that she has a desire to study, and he doesn't  even consider her to do what she desires.  Things can be said politely. It looks like he is control freak. 
As far as her husband's habit, i don't think all husband and wife have same choices, its all about compromise. I think it is best for both of them to sit down and talk. When things don't change, go to marriage counseling.