Anita, if you are reading this-

You made a big mistake by getting married despite of your unwillingness. You shouldn't have, if you didn't want to. You Could anytime convince your parents. I know it would have been hard but not impossible. You didn’t want to get married BUT you never tried to not get married. And just wanting yields nothing. Do you realize that you messed up so many lives by doing this!

My sister did the same thing. She married a guy chosen by her family, when she didn’t want to. And now she tells me that she can’t stand him for even a moment. She doesn’t like anything he does or says or wears. And she tells me that he looks like a momo, which, to be honest, he does! But he used to look like a momo even before marriage, so why did she marry him! And now she is telling me that she’ll get divorced. I know the guy loves her very much and as much as I feel sorry for the guy I also understand that one sided love can never lead to a fruitful marriage. So, boys & gals marry the person whom you love & not whom your parents love. And please don’t let anyone fall prey to your unsure actions.

So, Anita realize your mistake and learn from it.

And as it is said, it’s better to light one small candle than to curse darkness.

so DON’T CRY! ‘coz if you’ll cry too much then you’ll suffer from dry eyes( telling you from personal experience )

And that poor guy ,my dear ,is not at fault. He’s just who he is and what he has always been.

But if you don’t see a future with him then there’s no point sticking to him .Sometimes it’s wise to be direct with people, So tell him everything and apologize!

Move to Australia(or any other country you desire) and start a new life with new people around. And as far as you family is concerned, tell them your reasons behind doing all this, tell them that you could never be happy with him and vice-versa .They might not easily accept it but with time they will,‘Coz for parents it’s their children’s happiness that matters the most.

And as for samaj- well, we all know how our samaj is but if my sister doesn’t care then why should you! Just give a damn! Ek dui din kura garcha ani affai bhulcha……Be strong and everything will work out just fine.

And I’m sure ramesh will find someone who fits him, Or maybe you can help him find someone.

Good luck!