Posted by: Nepte December 26, 2007
Anita Bhandari- My Friend in Boston
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Ramesh will never change until her wife (Anita) want to change him.
Example: She can lovely say, this kind of cloth looks great on him, etc.

Married life is a compromise. So Ramesh and Anita both should compromise 50% of their original life style to make happy each other. The result is 150% for benefit for both.

In this situation, Anita should start her steps by trying to please him with her choice of things. Gradually she can put her demands and he will certainly listen if he is not a bad guy.

Cultural shock can be another problem for her. She should get chance to meet other people and understand the American life  (Nepali's life in America). This will give her some sense why Ramesh is like that.

Good luck Anita.




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