This story may or may not be true but I am sure there are hell lot of couple in this situation in US.

In this case, Anita doesn't dislike him for how he treats him, but in fact what is actually is- his whole personality. Whatever her reasons and excuses are, but she married him without knowing him too well. And that guy may not be a bad guy at all. He is just a hardworking individual, and is into his own life.  He has his taste of music, dresses and his own definition of fun. Just because he is married doesn't mean he should change himself to what suits his wife. Certainly there will be comprises, but this girl just doesn't like him. She doesnt at all talk about if it would be okey for her if he changed some behaviours of him.

If he is just an honest and hardworking guy,  then she might be messing up with his life.