I am also here to look for some decent advice like Natalie1. My situation is little bit different than hers or you all can say one step ahead. I am a student and have been a here for a semester. I am living with my close relatives. They have been very supportive to me. But I am also been advised to meet some guys because it’s about a time. I am also a girl of 25. So I am going to meet some people during Christmas.

I have never been in any relationship. I have had some infatuations but I didn’t pursue it because of family values or you can say I didn’t want to take risk. After reading Natalie’s thread and also some other posting in Sajha, it seems like it’s difficult to find someone who didn’t have any past relationship in life although it shouldn’t be my priority. I know lot of people who had past but they seem to be living happily with his/her present partner. So if I meet the guy how would I know that he can leave behind his past and ready to commit for a new relationship. What are the things that I should focus to make sure of it? How difficult it is for men to do so…. Please advise me and I also request you all to provide some decent views or experiences.