natali , 24 is just the beginning for a girl. this is the age when they come to realization of many things. this is the age when they gain perspective in life out of numerous crushes, prejudices, reservations and all. all sort of uninformed and opinionated views stop there and they feel like a woman in a true sense. they are more focused and more capable to judge what is right and what is wrong. most importantly, they learn to say strong sensible "NO", instead of all ignorant stupid Yes-es.

if my pa was my mom's type or  if my mom was my pa's type? they still  don't know and they never bothered to know. yet they have managed to come this far. don't marry for the sake of marrying. make sure what you want in life, coz there may be compatibilities, there may be everything that must have clicked but at the end of the day your heart may not beat an extra beat at his sight, instead you may be  getting goose-bumps thinking about the  future with him. again, if you can't come to conclusion  then just dive into arrange marriage. it is always there-the so called last resort. the water will push you up and keep you afloat.

i won't say sajha is not a rite platform to start with, since there are  quite many number of visitors and  most of them  are nepalese.but definitely you need to implement several filters to find the right fish from this pond. if not you may end up with shark, dolphin(if you are lucky), electric fish or a color changing chameleon who might be dating several others with the different names.then again, there are nice people too.i've ended up making many friends from sajha -lovely wonderful sisters, few brothers, and a whole lot of  frens.

one of my very good friend from sajha quoted once," cleo, sajha is full of sick people." yeah, i agree majority of people here are loner including myself. this is our virtual refuge. the world is a sea of sick people and sajha is not an exception. no one is normal if there exists any definition of normal as such.

i wish you luck. as they say you can only find it when you stop looking for it. additionally, there is no such person as Mr./ Miss Right for any of us. we have to turn them into one.