As some wize man a long time ago said, "men use the pretext of love to get sex and women use sex to get love"...If you can find the fine line in between and work on it, both ya'll would be fine.  Da best to ya both!!

BTW, this thread might help ya!  I'm in no way saying it would be acceptable though  ;)

http://www.sajha.com/sajha/html/OpenThread.cfm?forum=2&ThreadID=53247