guys guys....
let's not be too harsh on racheeta, shall we? we cannot just assume and make her already entangled matter even worse for her to decide on.

what you all said could be right, but what she's telling can also be right, i.e. may be the guy misinterpreted her friendly expressions/actions/jives? and moreover, everything could be correct but still due to circumstances, we go through complications in life, no?

let's stop passing on judgments, racial slurs and gender discriminatory remarks...let's be solution-oriented rather than pin-pointing each other's faults.

so as deepbro mentioned, and as i see, the best possible solution in this regard for racheeta would be to TALK IN PERSON with both the guys and sort things out. clear any misunderstanding that's there.

life is a learning experience: we falter, we flunk in testing times, we learn and we move on...that's what life is about.

good luck to you racheeta