amazing bro haha ..not laughn at u!.just at the situation!
ke garney hoina? smtimes all we can do is laugh!esp when we feel so lost on wat to do!

anyways since im not experiencing wat u r currently goin thru, i guess its way easier for me to come to a decision. and if this helps u to make up ur mind(are u counting how many are telln u to go for it and the rest whos shoutin at u to stop wasting ur time and dun even think of such stuffs?;oP  hehe)...yeah go for it!:oD

well u r thinkn about it and have the strong urge to, so why not? just make sure watever u say doesnt send more than one mssg across? cos if that happens, u be needing tonnes of panadols for ur headaches? ..its not wrong to care for another person hoina? so showing u care, is there anything wrong with that?hehe..
i mean put urself in ur her shoes..wouldnt it make ur day if some lost fren(could be ur ex but someone whom u still feel close too but cos u want to get back together ;oP) wished u on ur bday and made u realise u r still being remembered and more importantly..cared for?hehe

and i dunno about ur plan regarding the "two words", if u do go for it..smtimes the less words u put the more it says?esp for someone whos lookn for other meanings in those words ;oP...being short is good..when ur concise ;oP..wat would it tell u if u received just a "happy bday" from someone whom u havent kept in touch for ages, but u still think about?i made u more freaked out didnt i?;oP haha...

anyways good luck with watever u decide to do!:oD

btw if i was in ur situation, im quite certain i wont wish haha(have u ever seen me mention me being "quite certain"?see how confident i am on this!which just so aint me? wat does this tell u?;oP haha)..tho i might care..its too awkward esp showing that to a fren that i have lost touch with...and yeah funny as it is, i do seem to remember some bdays of frens(can i still call them frens? hehe) whom i havent seen nor have been contact with for ages..and to think im the type of person who cant remember bdays for sh*t! yeah its a weird world..

but when i do remember..i guess i start grinning at the thots of how weird it will be if i actually wished them and how will they react(or not react ;oP hehe)...plus its always better to imagine them having a time of their life on their bday than to get a reply sayn "nothing great happened, same old yadda yadda" haha...and well guess im pretty scared to dig the past..who aint scared of diggin the past hoina?;oP

alright enuf of ranting and showing my hypocrisy but seriously...wat i couldnt/cant do..i hope u will be able to! plus u know, we all are here to hear ur tensions if u do end up following our encouragement which led u to having migraines ;oP hehe...darn! u just made me remember a couple of frens whom i had been telln myself that i will ring them for the past 5 or so yrs haha..(their numbers are etched in my mind! hehe)..oh basically once i left that country, i didnt bother passing my number(its a waste of time and money to call me hehe) and they aint the type to email..well we never were the type to talk in email/online,yeah i know weird! haha..and do they still remember me? errr..from my many experiences..if ur weird, ppl seem to not forget u too easily hehe

oh perhaps a belated wish? if ur too scared to wish on her actual day?;oP

"Here is a belated wish for you, May happiness always come to you but not late like my wishes too" haha..i just felt like i was able to "wish" all those frens that i hadnt for years tho i wanted to!...i feel a huge burden lifted off me! watever ;oP

good day!