Samsara:  You are right not to expect anything from anybody. I do try to do that and at this time, I did do it with good intentions. Am not expecting any recognition or credit but was shocked with the etiquette part. I guess it is my naivette in this situation. I hope she gets this job if this is something she wants to do. And I would not want to know any details/progess about her coz if life is to take unpleasant turn for the person I referred to, I would not be able to live with myself. So I guess it is good after all that she did not reply. My two cents.

Samsara, thank you again for your insight.