Your name does not coinside with the problem you have said.. You must be from the deep city like Kathmandu other wise you would have known these tricks and trade while going to मेला पात , दसैं तिहारको पर्व मा एसो कुनो पायोकी सिद्धाइ सक्छन।

I do not think the word is from your GF, but you may have derived the concept of ever lasting like in P o ... n movie.

You do not have any problem and do not think of timing just try  do it with a very ease. यो काम सुरुगरेको कती भयो, नौसिखिया हरु तेत्तिकै हरेस खन्छ्न Practice makes you perfect.