my point? errr...dun really have one. Really!more like have thousands? ..nah not that much!

i prefer to go on with the flow..and if i dun like the flow..i might try swimmin against it, until i cant and hopefully by then i still will be able to stay afloat instead of sinkin?

the seven yr(trial) marriage might be good for tonnes of ppl!so if they implement such a stuff, im all for it!for their sake!:oD...but speakn for myself..i prefer that it didnt change. It kinda loses the purpose/meaning of marriage for me, if they changed it. Marriage to me represents, my commitment to the other special one, for eternity!and hopefully it will last longer ;oP ..but its a two way street hoina?so that only time will show :oD..

and maybe it will be an enternity of hell!?wahahaha ;oP..have seen a lot of my guy frens change after bihe :oS guess i miss their old selves!which i've learnt to accept :oD ..

but i guess hell or not...the thot of having/aimin for smthing that is everlasting!yeah!that def is smthing to strive for?..if i already knew, after 7 yrs there was a way out with no implications etc..would i even try hard to make it work, in the 1st place?or who knows? knowing that i have 7 yrs to work as hard as possible, both of us will try our darnest and when the time comes, both of us have "overworked" and are too drained out to try more?..i guess for me..when i feel i have eternity/forever to try..i wont feel the rush(which i do seem to do a lot!and miss a lot of things!esp things i really didnt wanna miss out on!!)

u heard this sayin havent u? the fruit of hard work tastes better?smthing along those lines..i guess we humans being the intelligent creature we are..always try and cant stop trying to make things easier for us..which is the smart and right thing to do!? but i guess some of us stupid morons *stands up and raises one of his hand, while pointing to himself with the other* err..cant be understood and still likes to do things their own ways!goin against logic and norms!...well ke garney ho!smthings just seems better when we have to work for it!and doesnt seem to easy!..and yeah!im too stubborn!tho thats an understatement! and dun have a job..but when i do, i hope so someone will tell me like u just did.."good job"!with the same tone etc cos I HEARD U!

having such marriage, doesnt it tells us in another way that marriage isnt smthing to take it too seriously?since we do have the option to get out after 7 yrs without no implication?and im pretty sure temptations lurks in every corner, esp when life seems perfect! and with such a marriage, isnt it even more temptin to stray?and how many times have we seen ourselves taken over by tempation, how little it might be?ok i will stop!;oP

anyways thats me and my opinions!:oD..since ur pro for this idea..i hope so they make it happen!:oD if it happens it happens hoina? Whats more important is to see, wat do we do when it happens!:oD

good day!:oD
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ps oi azn!u came here when i was typing?..kayho.."controversial" thread haru u always seem to appear?u controversial person?;oP hehe..hope all is well!:oD