uhh.. marriage is just like something you do for the society and people, like a show off i think, i mean you should get married whenever you're ready for it and think that you can handle the responsibilities that comes with it.. if you love someone and wanna make love which is an important part of the relationship, you obviously don't wanna wait till you get married, i mean marriage is gonna make a huge difference in your life, its just a big step and theres sex, which is a part of love, if you love someone you do whatever you can to make your partner happy, i dont think marriage really really matters.. and lol hey even if you're religious, mother mary was never married and she gave birth to jesus. marriage is man made, you do it whenever you feel like not when you think oh i wanna make love so im gonna get married. pheww.