you can never tell if your guy is in love with you...what you can tell is if you are in love with him...and if you think you are, I suggest you be absolutely sure. Let me put it this way.... (If) someday you find out that the guy is actually seeing another girl, and would be happier with her than you...how would you feel? Would you cry for yourself or smile for him? I think therein lies the answer you are seek.