Posted by: BathroomCoffee August 15, 2007
Is True Love Possible With 2 Partners
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"Anything is possible. It is possible to love the entire world in a universal sense but to be in love requires a different sort of focus, as it generally comprises a mixture of ingredients that may or may not even include love at all. Desire, fantasy-fulfilment cravings, a need for bolstering, a need for escape from the humdrum, ego-reinforcement and so on, are all characteristics that coincide with 'true love' which is why it usually only happens with one person at a time. However, as long as your heart is free and you're comfortable with your desires and have no need for establishing ownership, it's possible, though that's also assuming you're willing to accommodate feelings of jealousy and insecurity (theirs and/ or yours) without dumping responsibility for any aggravation they trigger in you onto the other. If you can do all that, then there is no reason you can't feel, indulge and enjoy the heightened state of bliss associated with romantic-sexual union with as many people as you can fit in your bed/house/harem/universe. Different people elicit different qualities of the above mix, hence why it's possible to explore the romantic path with more than one person at a time. Eventually, however, someone in the triangle (assuming there's only three of you involved), usually grows disgruntled at not getting enough of what they want and it all ends in tears - but that's inevitably the result no matter whether it's just two people involved in a tryst, three or 180. In short, should you find yourself inexplicably in love with more than one person at a time, assure yourself it's a totally natural variation on a theme. We don't live in a world of rhyme and reason or of morals, we live in a world of what is and if what it is a triangle, enjoy it for all it's worth, loving, in a universal sense, always more, rather than less. Because only through expressing that unconditional love does true liberation from suffering finally emerge."
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