Posted by: BathroomCoffee August 15, 2007
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"Anything is possible. It is possible to love the
entire world in a universal sense but to be in love requires a different
sort of focus, as it generally comprises a mixture of ingredients that
may or may not even include love at all. Desire, fantasy-fulfilment
cravings, a need for bolstering, a need for escape from the humdrum,
ego-reinforcement and so on, are all characteristics that coincide with 'true
love' which is why it usually only happens with one person at a time.
However, as long as your heart is free and you're comfortable with your
desires and have no need for establishing ownership, it's possible,
though that's also assuming you're willing to accommodate feelings of
jealousy and insecurity (theirs and/ or yours) without dumping
responsibility for any aggravation they trigger in you onto the other. If you can
do all that, then there is no reason you can't feel, indulge and enjoy
the heightened state of bliss associated with romantic-sexual union
with as many people as you can fit in your bed/house/harem/universe.
Different people elicit different qualities of the above mix, hence why
it's possible to explore the romantic path with more than one person
at a time. Eventually, however, someone in the triangle (assuming
there's only three of you involved), usually grows disgruntled at not getting
enough of what they want and it all ends in tears - but that's
inevitably the result no matter whether it's just two people involved in a
tryst, three or 180.
In short, should you find yourself inexplicably in love with more than
one person at a time, assure yourself it's a totally natural variation
on a theme. We don't live in a world of rhyme and reason or of morals,
we live in a world of what is and if what it is a triangle, enjoy it
for all it's worth, loving, in a universal sense, always more, rather
than less. Because only through expressing that unconditional love does
true liberation from suffering finally emerge."