I am in a big dilemma in having to choose between moving to USA or Canada. I got an offer of Phd and my hubby a post doc (1 year) in Canada and we have a PR status. Also, my hubby got a job in DC (which I think would be good in a long run) and me trying hard to find a job. I have been exploring the opportunities and I find these H4 horror stories of spouses... very scary. As the deadline is approaching to choose, I am more and more lost. Hence, I am opting this forum for suggestions which would be highly appreciated. Thank you all.