This is my opinion. 1. I do not know about 'Khutta tanne'. I cannot interpret it how that happens in friends' case. Point 2 might clarify this further, for larger community. 2. to hareeb. Take it as a fact that only very less people are interested in your benefit, as GP said, in this capitalistic world. 'Expecting' 'help' from anybody is your weakness. 3. To GP As Kalopani said, 'passing on' cannot happen in some things like money. Kalopani, consider GP's points in 'other than money' cases, and it sounds good. I agree with you in this ; ""FRIEND is one who understands your situation, is honest, and speaks truth, and does not plough excuses". " Key here is speaking out, and most people hesitate to speak out. 4. Its harsh, brother, to say that you 'hate' nepalese.