"Why I hate nepalese" This thread should be banned... I think a lot of people seem to enjoy blaming others for their own misfortunes. This is like acknowledging you own cowardice. You get a$$holes in all walks of life, does not matter whether they are Nepali, American, Indian. So, to generalize with a criticism or complement is just very unreasonable and naive. I think that we Nepalis seem to have this big misconception that if you are Nepali, you are a good person and as a result a good friend. This is not patriotic. Instead it is very very naive and unfortunately wide spread. I have noticed that a lot of us seem too afraid to voice our opinions. In fact it seems to be discouraged by the whole community. Maybe thats why you guys are talking about "khutta tanne"... and see it as a never ending problem. How about simply telling people how you feel instead of not saying anything in fear of offending them.