Thanks guys for the responses... I used to believe that you should marry the one that you love. But it may not make the perfect relationship unless the other person also loves you. Without any doubt, the marriage is perfect if both partners love each other. But I was kind of trying to get some idea from SajhaLand what should one do if both sides don't have equal affection for each other. The consensus looks like you should go with the one that loves you. For a simple reason that you don't have to sacrifice a whole lot to get satisfaction, coz your partner takes care of that. And when you have such a loving partner who the hell cannot be satisfied and run the life smoothly. yekloyatri, gunda, and sa54, we all have the same feelings, thank you for sharing your ideas. aarya, you made a good point, but sometimes life is bigger than money, and money cannot buy happiness, at least for some. Well done batas jiu (or should i say Miss Batas Jiu !!) for showing SajhakoHero the dust under his pants. Sorry SajhakoHero.. if you're offended .... Thanks for everyone who posted, and for those who would like to post with their own thoughts about the issue..... Cheers ;)