Can a guy and a gal ever be best friends in reality? Wot's your take on this? After having come across several situations, today I'm thinking that a guy and a gal can't be best friends. For a gal, it's so easy to be misinterpreted and misconstrued. Often her actions can be taken as suggestive. And one fine day, all of a sudden your so called "good" or "best" guy friend may end up proposing you and you don't know how to handle the situation at all.... As I was growing up, I used to think why can't a gal and a guy be best friends? After all its all a matter of understanding and being open minded. But now, I don't think the same anymore......wor's ur take on this?